Deserving
Are you deserving of being okay with you?
Do you rely on others to validate what you do and who are?
Does it hurt and do you become angry when someone close to you criticizes most everything you are doing?
Why do you hold such value of another person’s opinion?
Was it a trigger or expectation? Did you anticipate push back and criticism?
How do you want that person to see you?
You had put them on a pedestal…and expected them to do the same for you.
Have you experienced a great awakening and found out that the person is not what you thought?
Pause and look within.
Don’t allow the outside world to determine your happiness or knock you off your healing path.
Be that example – only
Remember the joy your truth brings you.
Remember the clarity of the messages you speak.
Remember that not everyone is ready to hear them-and that’s okay.
This path is yours alone.
You do not need to convince anyone of who you are and why you do what you do. Some may disagree.
Some may follow
Some may fall away. Let them go, for it is their lives path.
Do not allow their words, judgement or attitudes influence your mood or reaction for it is destructive to your whole being.
If it happens and you become angry or disheartened-give yourself grace. This, too, is part of the learning.
It’s okay to step away.
Allow those who are not walking your path to follow their own.
You will find freedom when you release the need to manage or control of someone else’s outcome.
It was never yours to carry.
Take time to reflect. When it feels right, have that hard conversation.
Do not hold on to it. Repressed emotions festers. It becomes dis-ease-emotional first, then physical.
Speak your truth from your heart.
You now know do now know understand why this conflict stirred within you.
Before telling them how you feel. Ask them to clarify there understanding of the situation. The communication is rooted in curiosity and compassion.
Having that conversation will:
Create clarity
Bring understanding
Bring peace of mind and body
Create a path to move forward once again.
Let go of what is not truth
Release toxic energies
Clear or clean the air surrounding the situation
You are worthy of inner peace.
You are deserving of being fully, wholly, unapologetically you.
